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Adoption and How to Support Your Partner 

For a birth mother, the adoption process can be very complicated. If you are the partner of a birth mother, it may be difficult for you to know how to best support the birth mother. You can often be one of the people they need the most support from. Through Adoption Choices of Kansas, the birth mother can receive counseling and support from our staff. We want to make sure that if you are considering adoption, you feel equipped to assist her. You can often help her in a unique and meaningful way. 

If you need adoption help now, please call us at 877-903-4488, text us at 316-209-2071, or visit us at Adoption Choices of Kansas.

Assist With the Adoption Plan

If you have a good relationship with the birth mother, being involved in the adoption plan is a great way to ease some of her stress. However, it is valuable for the birth mother to receive input from someone close to her. She could need someone she can work with on the adoption plan. If you are the child’s father, you are legally required to consent to the adoption in Kansas. Then choosing a family with the birth mother is a great way to help secure a bright future for your child.

If you are worried about causing the birth mother stress while assisting in the adoption plan, just ask and learn how you can help in specific ways. The birth mother may be open to all forms of assistance, but she may be overwhelmed by another person trying to become equally involved. 

Help the Birth Mother Enjoy Herself

The adoption process is stressful, but it doesn’t need to consume the birth mother’s life. While it is a duty she has chosen to fulfill, you can make sure that she takes time to have fun. Help her enjoy herself in the midst of the process. Also, take her out on fun dates and help her take her mind off all the tasks she needs to complete. Let her know how important she is to you and remind her of her beauty.

Pregnancy can cause a lot of emotions for a woman. Having a steady voice reminding her of her value is incredibly important. Especially if she is a birth mother who is also trying to deal with the adoption process. Remember that she is going through a lot during this time. Make an effort to plan fun outings that won’t completely tire her out. Think of them as a welcomed break from the adoption. 

Listen to the Birth Mother 

It may be difficult for you to understand all the emotions that the birth mother is dealing with throughout the adoption process. This is why it’s incredibly important for you to ask her how she feels and listen to what she says in response. Showing her empathy and genuinely caring about how she is doing can display to her that you care about her. Make it clear to her that you support her in her decision to choose adoption.

Birth mothers may feel unnecessary guilt over placing their child up for adoption. You can make it clear to her that considering adoption is a humble and loving thing to do. However, make sure that you don’t dismiss her feelings just because they may not always reflect the truth. Taking time to really understand how she feels to the best of your ability can be just as valuable to her as you display your support for her decision. 

Help Her Find the Right Agency

Once the birth mother has decided to giving child up for adoption, It is important that she finds the right agency that can be able to guide her through the process. Adoption Choices of Kansas is ready to assist all birth mothers who choose adoption. You can inform her of this private adoption in Kansas and help her find local  adoption agencies in Kansas, to get started on her adoption plan. Our staff is well equipped to guide birth mothers through the adoption process in a personal way and help them work through any emotions they feel along the journey.

Also valuable for the birth mother to have people involved in their adoption plan that understand the adoption process extremely well and have personal experience with adoption. Our agency can offer exactly that. If you or your partner is looking to pursue adoption, please contact Adoption Choices of Kansas. We will do our best to help you locate the nearest office and answer any questions you may have. 

Choosing adoption is not giving up. If you need unplanned pregnancy help now, Adoption Choices of Kansas serves birth parents statewide and beyond. We can help with teen pregnancy, financial assistance, difficult situations, and more. Please call us or text us to learn more! Call Us 877-903-4488 or Text Us 316-209-2071

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