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Birth Mother Support After Adoption Placement

By Janae Pabon

When you hear about “the adoption process,” what comes to mind? You probably think of finding an adoptive family, giving birth, and finalizing the adoption. It’s true that through all adoption agencies, finalization is the last official step of adoption. This is where the baby’s custody is legally transferred to the adoptive parents. However, those who have placed their baby for adoption in Kansas know the effects of adoption don’t end there. 

As a birth mother, you have experienced pregnancy and given birth to a baby, and these are two life-changing experiences. The emotions that come up surrounding the pregnancy and adoption stay with you. You also may struggle to pay medical bills or other expenses.

At Adoption Choices of Kansas, we know some birth mothers may struggle after the adoption has been finalized. That’s why we provide you with support during the adoption process and also after. At our agency, we don’t forget about you after the adoption is complete.

Why Might I Need Adoption Resources?

When you first searched “adoption agencies near me,” you may have been looking for agencies that provide resources during pregnancy. You may not have considered that you may need assistance afterward, but don’t worry! Adoption Choices of Kansas has you covered and can provide you with the help you need. 

Many people can think of obstacles that a birth mother may face during the adoption process, but there are many reasons why a birth mother may need support afterward, too. A birth mother may be so focused on creating an adoption plan, finding the perfect adoptive family, and dealing with legalities, that they don’t think of what happens after. The emotions that follow can be really difficult to handle. You may grieve the separation from your baby, and you may feel overwhelmed from the birth. Birth mothers can struggle with depression, anxiety, and generally lowered mental health after placement. 

You may also be struggling financially, even after the adoption, as a result of the pregnancy itself. You may not have been able to work as much or at all. Everyone’s situation is unique, and if you need extra support after placement, that’s totally okay.

What Kind of Resources Does Our Adoption Agency Offer?

Our agency offers support for birth mothers in a few ways post-adoption, and more information about them can be found on our websites or by contacting us.

  1. Counseling: Because of the difficult emotions that arise after placement, including regret, grief, sadness, and guilt, counseling can be beneficial. As a birth mother, you may need help processing these emotions. If you don’t have a partner or an immediate support system of friends and family, it can feel very lonely after you complete an adoption. Even if you have a support system, counseling may be needed to process these emotions and learn coping skills. It reassures you that you don’t have to go through this alone. We can connect you with counselors who specialize in adoption or even support groups for birth mothers if you would like counseling in a group setting.
  2. Financial Assistance: The need for financial assistance doesn’t necessarily end the moment you finalize the adoption and place your baby. At Adoption Choices of Kansas, we want you to continue to feel supported. Your adoption counselor can discuss your situation with you and determine what assistance you qualify for. Whatever financial assistance you are allotted will continue to be provided for six months after delivery. This way, you have some time to recover and get back on your feet.
  3. Open Adoption: Choosing an open adoption is a way to continually have limited contact with your baby and the adoptive family. You can schedule meet-ups and exchange photos. This way, you can be present in your baby’s life without having to parent when you are unable to. Open adoption can provide reassurance for birth mothers whose main worry about adoption is not being in their baby’s life.

Finding Support for Your Kansas Adoption

You may be a pregnant woman wondering, do adoption agencies near me offer help before and after pregnancy? The answer is that Adoption Choices of Kansas does. If you are considering placing your baby for adoption in Wichita or any other city in Kansas, we can help you begin the adoption process. Do not hesitate to contact us, and we can answer these questions for you and more.

If you are a birth mother who would like to inquire more about how we can support you, please call or text us. If you already worked with us and have an adoption counselor, they will be happy to answer your questions as well.

Choosing adoption is not giving up. If you need unplanned pregnancy help now, Adoption Choices of Kansas serves birth parents statewide and beyond. We can help with teen pregnancy, financial assistance, difficult situations, and more. Please call us or text us to learn more! Call Us 877-903-4488 or Text Us 316-391-4904.

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