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Becoming unexpectedly pregnant can be stressful. If you are pregnant and addicted to drugs or other substances, such as alcohol, that overwhelming feeling may be intensified. Before you read any further in this article, please know one thing: Adoption Choices does not judge. Regardless of whether or not you are pregnant and addicted to drugs, we can still absolutely work with you to create an adoption plan.

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It’s important to know that if you do choose to pursue adoption, there’s an adoptive family out there for every pregnant woman, substance abuse issues or not. Here’s how Adoption Choices helps women who come to us when they are pregnant and addicted to drugs:

When a pregnant woman first contacts us, she is connected with her own personal adoption specialist. This social worker will be her main point of contact throughout her entire pregnancy and the adoption process, should she end up putting a child up for adoption whose mother has been on drugs. This one-on-one relationship will serve as a woman’s primary screening process. Her adoption specialist will work to determine her commitment to adoption and help her to learn more about living a healthy lifestyle, both for her own benefit and her baby’s.

If a woman contacts us early enough in her pregnancy, her adoption specialist will also help her receive access to prenatal care. These prenatal care records, along with her self-disclosed Social Medical History form, will be given to her child’s adoptive parents (with personal identifying information redacted). The Social Medical History form will ask a woman to disclose information about her family’s medical history and her own, as well as any pertinent facts about substance usage. This is where someone “giving a baby up” for adoption due to being a mother on drugs would indicate any substance use.

Please know, however, that disclosing any information about being pregnant and addicted to drugs will not lead to any sort of punishment or consequences. Rather, this information will help us to match an expectant mother with an adoptive family who is prepared to accept any challenges a child may have in relation to the substance use. For example, some families may be better equipped than others to adopt a baby from a woman who is pregnant and addicted to pain pills. There will be no judgment based on any substance usage; a woman who chooses to place her baby for adoption is making a selfless and brave decision, regardless of any other circumstances.

How we help women who are pregnant and addicted to drugs:

Every birth mother who works with Adoption Choices fills out a Birth Mother Application (BMA). In their BMA, they will be given the opportunity to indicate which substances they are currently using or have used while pregnant. It is important to disclose drug/alcohol use.

Every adoptive family who works with Adoption Choices fills out an application as well. In their application, they are given the opportunity to indicate if they are comfortable with a prospective birth mother potentially using throughout her pregnancy. Prospective adoptive families will be presented to pregnant women who are a good fit for the preferences they list on their application and BMA.

It’s also important to know that, just as Adoption Choices does not judge, neither do the adoptive families you may be matched with. Many hopeful adoptive parents understand, as we do, that admitting an addiction while seeking to give your child the best life possible is extremely difficult and commendable. You will receive nothing but respect and admiration from an adoptive family for doing what is ultimately best for your child.

The benefits of choosing adoption

You may be asking, “Should an addicted mom place a child for adoption?” It all depends on your unique situation. Regardless of your circumstances, adoption can benefit you and your child just as it can for anyone else. A few of the primary benefits of adoption are that:

  • You may be eligible to receive financial assistance in the form of pregnancy-related expenses. Depending on where you live, adoptive families can pay for a pregnant woman’s rent, maternity clothes, utilities, groceries, health expenses and more when she chooses to pursue adoption.
  • You can choose your child’s adoptive family. An adoption specialist will help you to determine exactly the kind of life you imagine for your child and will ensure that you find a family who is capable of providing just that.
  • You can still have a relationship with your child. By choosing an open adoption, you’ll be able to watch your child grow up with a loving family, and you can have as much contact with him or her as the two of you wish, according to the adoption plan you create.

For more information about pursuing adoption if you are pregnant and addicted to drugs, please call Adoption Choices at 11-877-903-4488 for a free, anonymous consult.

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