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Domestic Violence & Adoption in Kansas

By Melissa Camacho

If you are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and trying to get help with a domestic violence situation, we can help. Not only will we help you with how to give a baby up for adoption, but we will guide you on the protocols to report domestic violence and adoption in Kansas. It is dangerous for a birth mother to go through domestic violence while pregnant. This can be harmful to you and your baby. We want you to know that you do the right thing by reaching out to our Adoption agencies in Kansas

Adoption Choices of Kansas is a responsive and trusting agency to work with. Your wellness and safety throughout your adoption journey are our priority. Our adoption professionals will protect your rights while creating a suitable and flexible adoption plan. All birth mothers are treated with dignity and respect. We do not judge or discriminate against a birth mother’s preferences or differences. 

Steps to Protect Yourself from a Domestic Abusive Relationship in Kansas

Our adoption agencies are very resourceful in addressing a birth mother’s needs, especially physical and mental abuse. Any information you provide is strictly confidential between you, your adoption specialist, caseworker, attorneys, and other legal advisors. You are not alone. We are a team, and we work together to combat all kinds of abuse and negativity toward our birth mothers. Here are steps you can take as an aid to protect yourself against domestic violence:

  1. Call 911 to Report Domestic ViolenceIf you feel threatened or are in danger from an abusive relationship, you can call 911 to speak to an operator. When you are connected to an operator, you can use language codes to identify the issue. This is suitable if you are unable to describe the situation over the phone or can’t find a private space. For example, the operator will understand and report the issue if you say the code, pizza, to identify abuse. Then you can say you need pizza delivered to your home address asap.
  2. Reach Out to a Women’s Shelter in Kansas
    Don’t be afraid to seek help. You can call or visit a women’s shelter in Kansas, such as North Star Advocacy Center and Kansas Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence. These shelters offer legal advice and services to protect women against any form of domestic violence. You can visit their websites, contact them, and follow them on social media.
  3. Connect with a Caseworker with Our Adoption Agencies in Kansas
    When you pursue a private adoption in Kansas, you have the opportunity to speak with a caseworker to assist you with ways to recover from physical and mental abuse. You can discuss how to get treatment for mental health issues, such as postpartum depression, stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Therapists are available on-site and off-site. Your caseworker can also connect with a legal representative. The legal representative can help solve matters in an abusive relationship by placing a restraining order and other actions to control violence or threats.

Is the Birth Father’s Consent Needed to Create My Adoption Plan?

We understand you may feel fear or pressure to have the birth father involved in your decision to choose adoption. You do not need the birth father’s consent to create your adoption plan. This also applies if, for some reason, you are unable to reach or locate the birth father or he is unsupportive. If he approves of your decision, it’s up to you if you want him involved in helping you choose your options. However, it’s not mandatory, and you can proceed with the adoption process without his support.

You are in control of your adoption options. In addition, you may request to speak to an attorney to protect your rights in placing your baby for adoption. Our adoption professionals will not judge, discriminate, or pressure you into making any final decisions.

Create Your Adoption Plan in Kansas

Do not feel discouraged to inquire about your adoption in Wichita or troughoought Kansas. If you are pregnant and considering adoption and want to break away from an abusive relationship, feel free to contact our adoption agencies in Kansas. We will safely connect you to an adoption specialist to create an adoption plan. You will learn about other benefits supporting your needs, such as financial assistance for housing, rent, utilities, medical, transportation, maternity, and food.

 Other benefits include your options to choose an open-adoptionsemi-adoption, or closed-adoption. Open adoption would be your best choice if you want to have as much contact with the adoptive family through the mail, social media, or family visits. Other than that, you have semi-adoption, where you can communicate in more private modes through a third party or adoption agency. If you wish to just move on and not communicate with the adoptive family or your child, you can choose a closed adoption. 

We can also help you search for an adoptive family and conduct background screenings to ensure your child will grow up in a safe, loving home environment. In addition, you can join our free counseling support sessions to cope with emotions affecting your mental and physical health. This is a very helpful option, especially if you are experiencing domestic violence. After your adoption is finalized, you can join our Post-Placement services for up to six weeks of counseling and financial support. For more information, speak to your adoption specialist.

Seek Advice From Our Adoption Agencies in Kansas Today

Our mission is to help our birth mothers feel secure, protected, and comfortable during the adoption process. We are a diverse and inclusive adoption agency that embraces all birth mothers, no matter what their level of challenges are. It takes time for a birth experiencing domestic violence to weigh out her adoption options. Always take the time to identify what your needs are and reach out to our adoption agencies for help and guidance. You can search for private adoption agencies located across Kansas and Missouri. Adoption Choices of Kansas comes to meet you on your adoption journey.

Choosing adoption is not giving up. If you need unplanned pregnancy help now, Adoption Choices of Kansas serves birth parents statewide and beyond. The love and strength of adoption build a brighter future for our birth mothers, children, and adoptive families. Adoption Choices of Kansas serves birth parents statewide and beyond. Please call us or text us to learn more! Please call us or text us to learn more! Call Us 877-903-4488 or Text Us 316-209-2071  

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