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Do’s and Don’ts For Planning Your Adoption in Kansas

Planning to place your baby for adoption is an emotional and lengthy process that can come with questions and uncertainty. If you are a teenager with an unplanned pregnancy, a single-to-be mom, or this is your first time going through an adoption process- the last thing you should have to do is go through everything alone. Local adoption agencies such as Adoption Choices of Kansas and other adoption services in the Kansas area serve as a resource for assistance with deciding what is best for you and your baby. Here are some do and don’ts for planning your adoption. 

If you need adoption help now, please call us at 877-903-4488, text us at 316-209-2071, or visit us at Adoption Choices of Kansas.

Do Decide If You Want An Open Or Closed Adoption 

One of the most important decisions to make is if you want your adoption to be open or closed. Suppose you are unsure of what this means, head over to our website, where we have more articles that go in-depth as to what each choice entails. If you decide to go with open adoption, where you will have the right to visit your birth child and have a relationship with them throughout their life, you will need to go through a new process of picking an adoptive family that you feel is a good fit. There are many things to consider when picking an adoptive family, and you’ll want to be able to create a sustainable and healthy relationship with them as well. Deciding if your criteria match the adoptive families is a crucial step. Suppose you decide to go with a closed adoption. In that case, however, you will have no contact or relationship with your baby once they are born, meaning that the rest of the process will be out of your hands and up to your local adoption agency that places your child with a family. This is not a decision to take lightly. If you truly see yourself wanting a future, stable relationship with your birth child, you need to be prepared for that commitment. On the other hand, if you wish to have no strings attached to your baby once they are born, you must be ready to fully commit to that as well. 

Don’t Base Your Decisions Off Other People

Support is great and is highly encouraged throughout this process. If your partner who you conceived the baby with wants to have an active role throughout this process, we welcome them to assist you in making these tough choices. Family, friends, and even professionals such as adoption specialists or counselors make great support systems too and can help you through any uncertainty. You definitely should not have to go through this alone. However, as the mother of the baby, what happens through the duration and at the end of the pregnancy is ultimately up to you. While others’ opinions and thoughts can be helpful, remember that at the end of the day, you are the one who will be held responsible for the child, so you should decide any crucial decisions made for their future and well-being. If you have people in your life who show judgment or feel that they should have a say in what happens, remember that as the birth mother, your feelings and thoughts for your baby’s future come first. 

Do Get Professional Help from One of Our Adoption Specialist

Going off of the last point, while what happens to your baby is ultimately up to you throughout this process, getting professional help can take the stress off of trying to decide everything for yourself. Adoption agency representatives on our website are ready to assist you, judgment-free, and offer professional advice via phone, email, or in person. Giving your baby up for adoption can take an emotional toll on a woman as well, even if it’s what you think is the best option. Seeking out pregnant adoption help in the form of therapy or counseling to support you through what can be a very challenging time for a lot of women is a great way to take care of yourself in the midst of a lot of difficult decision-making. 

Don’t Rush Into Any Decisions When Considering Adoption in Kansas

Raising a child yourself, wanting to adopt a child, or putting a child up for adoption are all very considerable and important decisions that require patience and knowledge when planning. Let go of any pressure to make a decision quickly, as that won’t serve you in the long run. Your baby’s future, health, and happiness are major priorities, as well as yours as the birth mother. Instead, take time researching, seeking help, and informing yourself on all of your options to ensure that you are doing what is best for you and your baby. There are many resources to help guide you through every option and support system along the way. 

Choosing adoption is not giving up. If you need unplanned pregnancy help now, Adoption Choices of Kansas serves birth parents statewide and beyond. We can help with teen pregnancy, financial assistance, difficult situations, and more. Please call us or text us to learn more! Call Us 877-903-4488 or Text Us 316-209-2071

AllieMeet the Author: Allie Nowak is in her senior year of undergrad at Illinois State University studying public relations, with a minor in health & wellness coaching. She is extremely passionate about writing, digital content creating, and all things related to lifestyle & wellness. In her free time, she enjoys serving as editor-in-chief and publishing articles for her university’s chapter of Her Campus, the nation’s largest media platform for college women. You can also find her spending time with friends and family, traveling, reading, and walking her two golden doodles. She currently lives in the Northwest suburbs of Chicago where she was born and raised.

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